Today I started off my day with my mother discussing something really astonishing (at least astonishing for me at that moment) with my father. She was asking him, How did he cut that wire? and my father told her, "I am still wondering..". After a few moments, I came to know that somebody has stolen our electricity wire from the electricity meter outside, on the pole. That was something..something really surprising that how a person can even think of stealing an electricity wire??when there is already raining outside..*Shocking*. Anyways, this incident has nothing to do with this blog post of mine,hehe.
While coming to the office I was wondering about the negativity we all have in our lives. The very feeling that force us to do a lot of unwanted and undesirable things that we just can't think of doing otherwise. Having a tough time in life leads to some really bad acts like stealing, backbiting, depression and frustration so on. we just, somehow, need to release the negative energy from inside, and every person do it differently. Today I have just made a promise with myself, I have made a promise that I will eliminate majority of the negative things in my life by working on my Circle of Influence. I will, at least, try to make all the possible changes in my life . I just realized, while formulating a plan for eradicating negativity, that we sometimes start losing control on our Circle of influence by allowing some negative people/things to take charge of our moods and emotions. We allow them to make our mood "bad" by doing some stupid things and the very reason we give to ourselves is, "we have got hurt by our loved ones..". But think just for a second, that why just we can't let go of such people/things/acts out of our lives that are producing negativity in ourselves. What is the reason of having them in our lives and sticking to them?we love them? we care for them? we think regardless of the fact what kind of effect those things/people/act are having on our lives, we should stick to them. I believe, we shouldn't. We should work on ourselves and eliminate those negative entities from our lives and flush them out. Eliminating doesn't mean to shoot them and get rid of them, hehe :-D, it's more of taking charge of you and enhancing your circle of influence. Just STOP listening to their negativity, just STOP getting influenced of them. Because at the end of the day, they are just having negative effects on you that you, for sure, don't require at all.
Just take a charge of your life TODAY!!:-)
